14th Nov2008

More pain in the head

by Dutchcloggie

Aarrggghhh! I know it is JD’s pain and not mine and that I shouldn’t complain but my God how annoying is this tumour!! I feel so powerless and unable to do anything useful.

On Wednesday, JD had yet another headache. In fact, she had a headache for a few days (ever since her course of Dexamethasone, a steroid that helps to reduce swelling of the brain) was finished. On Wednesday, it turned in to a proper headache that left her rolling around the bed in pain. By the time I went to bed, she had been like that for hours. We had tried Paracetamol, Ibuprofen and Codeine tablets but nothing really helped against the pain. She was throwing up and it was just heartbreaking to see.

In the end, I picked up the phone and called NHS Direct, a telephone service where nurses and doctors from the National Health Service give people medical advice 24/7. The idea is that if people call that for minor cases, then they don’t need to go to the ER or doctor, saving money and time.

I rang them to find out if there was anything stronger I could get JD for the headache. We live 2 minutes away from the hospital so if the answer had been yes, I would have taken her to Accident & Emergency to get he medication but I did not want to take her there and then be told there was nothing they could do for her. After all, it really was just a headache.

The nurse on the phone was fantastic. She was friendly, helpful, caring and understood that I was anxious to get SOMETHING, anything, to help JD feel better. She decided it would be best for a doctor to call me back to discuss it. And so I gave my phone number and within 15 minutes, a doctor called me back. He said he would like to see JD at the hospital. So I bundled her in the car for the 2 minute ride and off we went.

The doctor was friendly and managed to make me feel smug too! He said it was rare to meet a patient with a partner who knew every single detail of the treatment (I know all dates, medications, dosages and whatever else you can know about JD’s condition). This surprised me because I would have thought everyone wold know all details about your partner’s illness.

Anyway, he looked at her and offered her to be admitted overnight (it was already 1.30am by then) so that they could give her stronger pain killers. The other alternative was to give her a new course of Dexamethasone right away as that would immediately start reducing the swelling of her brain and thus take away some of the pressure inside her head. JD chose to go home instead with the tablets.

They seemed to help because she finally managed to fall asleep around 3am. In the morning, we went to the GP who gave her a new course of Dexamethasone for the next 25 days.

It is now Friday and the headaches are still there. On a scale of 1 to 10, she rates it as 7 or 8 today. That sucks. That really sucks. I hate the fucking tumour. It may not even be related to that bloody thing. She might just have developed migraines. Now that would be really shitty.

JD was supposed to go to Germany with the fencing team for a tournament. She’s at home now, deciding the headaches were too severe.

Oh, and to top it off, the boiler is broken and we have no heating & no hot water.

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