Things are indeed getting better I feel. Maybe the fact that JD’s hair is now growing back in earnest makes me feel very hopeful of this all being over someday soon. I love touching the fuzzy hair on her head and stroking it. Last night we went to a rugby tournament that we both play in over the summer (Touch Rugby so no need to worry) and the girls in the team (who had not seen JD for a week or so) all said: Wow! Your hair is really growing back fast now. It made me smile. That is, until they started playing and I realised it will be a long time before JD will be back to the way she was before the radiotherapy treatment started. She looked confused and slow to react to what was happening on the pitch. But she said she was really enjoying herself so that was great. Maybe the tactical talk we had before the match helped her.
In touch rugby, there are only 6 players on the pitch and they have no specific task and decisions are made in a split second; exactly the thing JD is struggling with at the moment. So I suggested that instead of doing that, JD should be the only player with only 1 specific task on the pitch so she could focus on that one thing. So all the players on the team knew what JD would and wouldn’t do.
It seems that worked really well and JD played quite well. It still made me cry a little though.
We are getting her a free bus pass because last week her driving licence was revoked due to having had radiation to the brain and some focal minor seizures. It is the right decision but it made JD quite upset. The emotional impact of loss of independence is something that can not be underestimated. It is different if YOU make the choice not to drive. It is not nice when you are told you are unfit to drive.
But things are getting better. Slowly. But surely. The only thing to find now is: how far does the progress go and when will any permanent damage become obvious?